If I am fabulous , why am I still single?

Whenever men date me, they will always ask me why am I still single. I can see the look of surprise on their face. It is almost like them telling me "This must be ridiculous". I then asked them to ask the men! Isn't this something beyond my control or is it? Why do some men marry some women and not others?

I dated and my EXes were great individuals. Frankly, I thought I am a very lucky gal because my EXes loved me very much and I know they still do. I don't have any bad things to say about them because we had a very good and loving relationship. We were always happy whenever we were together and we were close friends. They would discuss about their work and share their interests and feelings with me because I was their partner and confidant. I always enjoyed the fact that I was important in their lives. I always looked forward to spending time with them when we were dating. My favourite times were watching movies at home and just enjoying a nice glass of wine by the balcony. We also had one thing in common, our love for the sea breeze by the beach. I could also sense that they felt lucky just because they were with me. I was one happy gal. But we did not work out because our goals did not match. Maybe if I had changed my goals to suit them, I would probably be fabulous and married. But would that be the right thing to do?

Should I not be adamant in my goals and what I want to be? For example, some of my EXes asked me to relocate and move to where they are now working and living. I didn't agree because I love it here and I thought someone else might come along without me having to move. I made that decision because I wanted to be close to my mum. While I do love them, I know I will not be happy when my mum is hurt. She does not want me to be far away from her.

Have I ever regretted my decision? No. I am still with my wonderful mum and if I had left, I would not have met Zen. When I noticed that Zen and my family car have the same car number, I definitely thought that was a sign! LOL. Life is a box of chocolates, you will never know what you are going to get...(",)